Be aware that the knowledge that you are leaving, the fact that this is your first serious girlfriend and that she feels strongly for you, can create a 'false positive'.
It will make things seem to be something that they might not be.
If it really is the kind of love worth fighting for, then either don't go back to France or have her visit. See if it can last through that.
If you cannot realistically answer yes to the above then it would be best to discuss it with her and make a sensible choice.
She may already have done that for you.
Sometimes the hardest part of loving someone is to watch them be happy with someone else.
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