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I am not comfortable having sex with him and the timeline for that activity is 4 years. He says that if it's not a problem for him now it won't become one.
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It seems that he may be a bit conflicted...
My suggestion would be not to have sex until you're ready - and if your boyfriend doesn't understand that, get rid of him. It sounds almost like he is trying to guilt-trip you into it...
If time doesn't heal all wounds, you may want to consider therapy - either way, I wish you the best!