unhealthy views towards sex
So. I've never been raped but my mother was before I was born and I think she has instilled some very unhealthy ideas about sex in me - unconsciouslly and unheathily. Throughout highschool there were probably 4 or 5 guys that could be said to have sexually harrassed me. My father and brother - male role models - are asses. Anyways, all this has conspired to give me a very unhealthy view of sex. Not to mention my religious upbringing.
My bf mentioned to me the other day that he thinks I think he's an ass/bad guy BECAUSE he wants to have sex with me and because he loves me.
I don't really know what my point is except to say - how do I get over this - other than time?
Thanks.
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