Hey, 5757, I agree with the idea of the tones of voice and told him about it - he agrees and says that that makes sense. We were fighting like every other conversation and it was becoming not fun anymore. I had previously said that I don't care where this relationship goes as long as it's fun - and when it becomes not fun then I'd have to think about it. I think he was scared that I was gonna leave him as well - which probably added to the problem. But, the last 5 or 6 conversations have been nothing but fun - which is great. Anyways, I just wanted to let you all know that he's coming up this weekend as well and hopefully we'll get a lot of mauling in. lol.
Anyways, I'm sure I'll revive this thread when problems arise but for the moment. Thanks.
One other random question: We are not having sex or anything close to it (no bj's, pants remain ON) but I was wondering if anyone could suggest another random thing I could do for him sexually. I just feel like he does stuff to give me pleasure and I wanted to reciprocate. I asked him about it and he says he's happy when I'm happy but still...
Anyways, Thanks.
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