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I have told my husband some things that I like in the past. He waits for me to ask for it all the time, he never takes the initiative. His favorite answers to many of my questions are "If you want" and "I guess". Those responses make me feel like he really does not want to do what I am asking. But I guess that could be another thread, not really on this topic, sorry. I think what I am trying to say is that due to his past history of responding in this way to any question, even those not about sex, I am leary of asking him any new ones. I wish I had learned more about myself a long time ago. I hope 14 years is not too late to try to spice up our sex life. I am rambling, I must be getting tired.
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"Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras
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