When you had the discussion with him, did you tell your desires first or did you just ask him what he would be "in to" first? He might not have wanted to say anything as he is not sure what your going to be receptive too. He might not have wanted to offend you, ie, "wow she'll think i'm a right pervert if i say this". Whatever your darkest, dirtiest fantasy is, I suggest you come right out and tell him. That might help him get over his fear as maybe he is just scared to offend/ repulse you.
Good luck! You husband is one lucky guy!
As well, if he reacts all strange or put off by your new found sexual desires he might just be wonder where it is all coming from. Like mentioned before, he might be questioning if he is good enough for you, or even if your cheating on him as he'll want to know why all the sudden desires.
just imo which probably is wrong! (my first ever post in this section)
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