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Originally Posted by anitalife2
I am a female, and a very sexually driven one at that. I always have been.
Several months ago I got out of a longterm relationship, and even though I've had sex a couple times since then, I'm finding myself very sexually unfulfilled. So I've taken up masturbation much more fiercly in the meantime.
Now, a male friend (I'm not sexing) and I were talking about how much each of us touch ourselves, and apparently I masturbate more than him (I think he lies) and he was giving me a hard time, like it's bad for girls to do it or something.
That isn't fair is it??
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Actually I think that your "fierce masturbation" habit is very good because by turning to masturbation you're becoming much more attuned to your body and you have a better handle on what sort of clitoral stimulation works best.
If more women masturbated "fiercely" (as you so eloquently put it) then I'm certain that they'd be more inclined to be open with their men and let them know how best to be touched, and everybody would come out more satisfied in bed.
This being said, I think your friend is an idiot. While I can understand why a man might feel that masturbation is a waste of orgasm, there is no reason he should feel that way when a woman is the one doing the masturbating.
The way I see it, when a man has to resort to masturbation it's a sign that his game is so lame that he can't get any sex so he must resort to spanking the monkey---that's how I feel when I jerk off because I'd rather have the real thing but I just can't get it. However, when a woman masturbates I see it as a turn-on because from my perspective she's taking the time to get to know her body more so that if I ever have sex with her she won't be afraid to let me know how to touch her best so that she reaches climax.