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Originally Posted by sailor
I also had thought about breaking up with her last week, though not because of anything she had done. I was concerned that we were both being more of a drag on each other than we were a help--she was miserable without me. And I wasn't enjoying having to worry about what would happen if she went to a party and was drinking.
I'm still kind of leaning towards the breakup route anyways.
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That certainly puts a different spin on the situation. Have you been dating her in order to "save" her? There's a term for that, I don't remember what it is, but my wife's best guy friend went through a number of relationships where he was trying to be the knight in shining armor, and it wasn't healthy for him or his women.
I guess I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but I wanted to throw it out there.