This has got to be the most mature post on this forum to date. The way you handled the whole situation shows what kind of person you are. I am very glad that she told you straight out what happened and didn't try to hide it from you. Most girls would think "Oh well my b/f is thousands of miles away, he'll never find out". I suggest you forgive her, but make sure she understands that this isn't a free pass. Let her know that should she ever do something like this again the trust between the two of you may not exist and you may think about moving on.
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