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Originally Posted by martinguerre
don't take every invitation as an obligation. hang out with them as often as you have fun doing so.
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Good advice. You don't need an excuse to turn down an invite. It's enough simply not want to do what they're going to do, or to just want to have quiet time. And frankly, if you want to make more friends on your own or deepen some other friendships you've already got, you're not going to do so with wheels 1 and 2 dominating your social life.
If you feel like hanging out by yourself or staying in the dorm, that's your business. If you feel like going off somewhere on your own, or with somebody else, that's also you're business. If they decide you're not as much fun as you used to be, that's _their_ business. But being a friend doesn't mean just being what somebody else wants you to be and doing what they want you to do _when_ they want you to do it.