I have a few hours left at my job and I'm getting a supreme lesson in how to deal. We've moved four times in four years, but now it's out of state and I'm leaving behind a mammoth of concern about what I'm going to do, how I'm going to pay for grad school, where I'll work.
Whenever I think of my SO, I repeat the mantra, "that is the only thing that matters."
This has been a four month process that has had many twists and turns. I had to start talking, writing, whatever. Not always about this, but just, anything to relieve the pressure. Sometimes it has helped to talk about anything BUT. TFP has been wonderful for that. I've hardly surfed any other web site these past couple of months.
I guess I have to just keep telling myself not to worry or carry uneeded troubles with me. It will all be over soon. I guess this also means Aberkok should be getting back from Hong Kong about now. Welcome home!
Thank you TFP and TFPers for helping me deal.