Abaya,
I agree with you, I just thought of going a bit deeper and trying to figure out the nature of this "selfishness". A know your enemy kind of thing.
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Originally Posted by macmanmike6100
because it's bullshit? I agree about the importance of communication but sometimes, honestly, people are trying too hard to be profound, unique, etc. that's what I call them on it, and this guy probably does the same.
what's accomplished is that the person realizes that you're not so dense as to fall for said bullshit, and hopefully doesn't try it again in the future. ideally, it would also lead to the "why's"...possibly the long discussions he's talking about?
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Indeed, communication is not the same as just listening. It's a dialogue.