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Originally Posted by Sultana
What makes couples grow distant?.... I think it boils down to lack of motivation, and one person trying their damnedest does not a good relationship make.
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Sultana, I really liked your post. Very cool list. In my first semi-real relationship I always used to wonder, "How do people fall out of love?"... it was just beyond me. Then I saw that it really just came down to WORK... how much are you willing to put in? How much are you willing to be unselfish? I think Ratbastid said it in the thread on abortion... that you really have to give EVERYTHING, no holding back... regardless of what the other person does (as long as you are not getting abused). But yeah, there comes a point when one or both people's patience runs thin, and then the distance creeps in...