abaya

Well, this is what your whole thread comes down to... not the transmission of HepB, but rather, are you mature enough to have sex and handle the consequences, including taking someone else's life as a result?

You didn't have the strength (integrity) to have an open, honest conversation with your current SO before you had sex with her, and you use the excuse that it's because a specialist told you it was safe. Even if it was safe, that is no reason for avoiding the discussion in the first place.

I damn well hope that if you have sex with someone else in the future, you'll have the strength to talk about EVERYTHING before you even have to "stop" in the moment. That means not getting INTO the moment until everything is on the table. And if you do get into the moment without talking first, YES, by god, it means having the balls to tell her to STOP, because you care about that person.

Sorry if this is harsh, but sex is SUCH an incredibly dangerous thing to undertake in this day and age. I can only try to scare the shit out of people who don't realize what damage they can inflict on others... the rest is up to them.

And by the way, waxmax, I think a LOT of people care about "dreaded diseases," far more than the smell of oral. Dental dams or even saran warp ARE effective measures; don't rule them out for someone else just because you haven't worried about diseases.

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