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Old 10-25-2005, 10:58 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by maleficent
While it'd be preferable for a child to spend time at home, rather than being out in the cold etc... can you meet them half way -- go for brunch at the inlaws then go home. or just arrive later for dinner
This sounds like it's a good compromise. As somebody else who has worked many a Christmas though, I think you should do what you want. However, if you establish a new tradition, it will affect your in-laws' tradition, and that may be a good thing. If we stuck to tradition without introducing a wrinkle now and then, we'd all be getting oranges in our stocking and horshound candy.

I know when my family went to the 2 Christmas paradigm (morning at home, afternoon with the grandparents), I was quite possible the most overjoyed kid in the world.
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