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Originally Posted by iblade
How many of you always check everything before moving on to oral sex, or use protections for oral sex?
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I have in the past stopped things from going further specifically to talk backgrounds and safety. I want to know where she's been and I want her to know where I've been. That's without any infections on my part. If I knew I had an infection it would become essential. If she doesn't want to go down on you without protection or you don't want to wear a rubber while getting head, then fine. There are other ways to get off.
Nobody knows for certain whether or not they have an infection. Nobody knows for certain whether they have cancer or a potentially fatal heart defect either. Anyeurisms can happen instantaneously and be quite fatal. Life is controlled risk. I get my tests done and take my chances. That has no bearing on your situation; you
absolutely know that you are a carrier for this illness, you
know it can be transmitted orally. Turn the tables around; would you want to go down on a girl with HPV or herpes without knowing? I'm guessing not.
The risk may not be huge orally, but lets not forget the potential consequences. Scirrhosis springs to mind, which can be fatal. I don't know if I can stress that enough. She can
die by contracting this from you. Do you really want to take that chance?
If it's a long-term relationship, vaccination is a viable option. Hell, even if it's not it might be worth looking into on her part. Until and if she gets that vaccine, you cannot take any chances.