iblade - As a healthy carrier it's easy for you to forget the potential consequences of the disease you carry, but they can be very serious. Any sexual partner needs to know about the infection; if you can't trust them with the information you probably shouldn't be having sex anyway.
Nobody's advocating abstinence here. If you use proper protection and everyone knows the risks involved, there's no reason for you not to have sex. There should be no sexual contact, be it vaginal, oral or anal, without proper protection. Again, there's a reason they make flavoured condoms and no, she does not have taste buds down there.
With proper care, the risk is small. Unprotected, it's huge. You owe it to her and yourself to be safe every time.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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