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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
Besides, if you can't talk about these things with a partner, you probably shouldn't be having sex with them. Frank discussion is ESSENTIAL to good, healthy sexual relationships, and if you can't do it, you should seriously consider celibacy.
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Snowy knows what she's talking about. Look man, if you find yourself getting so caught up in the "heat of the moment" that you can't slow down to consider the very real, and very scary reality of STDs, then I agree that you should consider celibacy until you can handle that kind of thing.
Sex is SERIOUS business. Sorry to be dramatic, but sex can eventually kill or seriously damage a person from a single moment of carelessness, where something got transmitted because you or she didn't want to take a moment to think ahead. Obviously I don't advocate repression or waiting till marriage, but jesus man, take a cold shower and realize how dangerous sex can be... then proceed with caution, EVERY ** SINGLE ** TIME.
I say these things not to be harsh, but to provide a wake-up call for a situation that could do you or your partner serious harm. There is no such thing as "heat of the moment" if you are both mature enough to be having sex.