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Originally Posted by abaya
if you don't know each other's sexual histories, haven't been tested, etc. (Do you know each other's history, and have you been tested?)
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The safest and only way to be sure. Me and mine had a very frank discussion re: sexual history (length of sexual activity, number of sexual partners, etc) prior to bedding down for the first time. As neither of us had been sexually active for over a year we decided to take a miss on the testing, but that would've been different if either one uf us had actually been having sex in the period prior to getting together.
In terms of casual sex, that's just not practical, which is where the rubbers/dental dams come into play. They do make flavoured condoms, y'know.