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Originally Posted by MEAD
I feel bad for anyone who has to gaurd their emotions so closely for fear that someone will take advantage and hurt them. It's really unattractive to me.
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Then find yourself a new girl. I'm sure this chick has elements of the girl you are after, and maybe you could make those shine in time, but either it wasnt the right match or you had the wrong approach.
My best guess is that her avoidance was a defensive mechanism meant to keep you at a safe distance. She probably liked you, yet wanted to keep you within arms distance.
If you still want things to work with her, then if I were you I'd make damn sure you are showing her a good time before you start talking terms and conditions. Otherwise, the moment you broach the subject is the moment you get transformed into wuss ass with a bleeding heart, and she will just counter with some "i wasnt ready" excuse, and never go out with you again.
oh and for what its worth...most of the times, if I had to ask a girl if she was into me, then the answer was no. Remove the following phrases from your vocabulary:
Was it good for you?
Are we more than friends?
Do you love me?
Some people might insist that its just being communicative, but I say bullshit; communication isnt just about words, and 9 times out of 10 you already know the answer. And if you dont, then start paying more attention to the clues. Feeling like you HAVE to ask is usually a good warning flag that trouble is amist.