I don't know how you are doing money wise, but Anxst, Sorceress and I have known that we are permanent for at least three years now. We just never had the money to buy me a ring. This year on my birthday they took some of our tax return and bought me a great amithyst solitare. He may just be one of those guys who is worried about money and figures that if things are fine as they are, why blow a huge wad of money on a wedding. Anxst is like that, but he knows how important a wedding is to me and Sorceress, so when we have the money he is willing to put up with having a wedding. He was that way for His and Sorceress' first wedding. He didn't want to spend the money, but he knew how important it was to her, so they got married.
I guess that what I am saying, is that if he loves you, he will get married because it is important to you.
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I was covered in blood, but it wasn't mine, so it was okay. - Anita Blake
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