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Had that happen to me a few times, and each time it ended up being that that she was embarassed about the situation and didnt know how to handle things towards me, so did the thing most people do in those times: avoided it.
When I saw the same behaviour in another girl i went out with, I flipped this line on her:
"explain something to me...how is it that we can have our tongues in each others mouthes one night, and the next day you seem to barely know me. Do I embarass you?"
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"its not like I expect us to be all over each other, but what I do want is for some basic acknowledgement that you care for me...if you do."
Ended up that she just needed time, which i gave her, and in time things did improve alot.
Make sure if you confront her about her behaviour (and i think you should), that you are damn certain about what you expect from her, and are prepared to explain it with clarity. Be able to give a list of examples (in situation x, i expect behaviour y), based upon what you is important to you. Don't make it a guessing game for her.
To me she's already sent you some strong signals that she wants more than friendship, and probably just needs time to get comfortable with her role in your relationship. Being open about your needs and expectations should speed up the process ten fold.
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