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I have two words for all people in LDRs (long distance relationships):
Avoid them!
I have seen nothing but trouble from them. Either one of them gets way to serious, or they just get moody and depressed and end up splitting up anyways.
Never try a sexual/love relationship over the internet.
As for your situation, tell him to slow down. Tell him he is going to fast and you don't want your life planned out like that right now. If he knows how you feel about your relationship, and he remains serious about you, he will do what he can to make your relationship for comfotable for you.
Not being comfortable with sex is not unusual, and it is not a problem. My fiance and i decided to hold off on sex as well when we first got together because we wanted to make sure we were right for each other. Now we are just going to wait till our marriage. Abstenence can lead to nothing bad, (no std, no unwanted pregnency, etc), but sex with someone you aren't sure about can.
If he says he will wait 3-4 years for you, give him the benefit of the doubt. I know it seems like guys can't hold off from sex nowadays, but there are guys out there who are trust worthy and can resist temptation 9at least to some degree).
LDRs are really hard, and i doubt anything I said really helped...
Good luck
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