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Maleficent - He's in Ontario and I normally live in Saskatchewan. I met him during a work thing this summer. This is my first real relationship and I have some personal issues. I am also merely not comfortable with sex. I want to make sure that we are real before I start into that and the only way for me to tell if it's real is if we were living in the same town and that won't happen until 3 or 4 years down the road.
ohh-shesus - Thanks for your insight. We talk about everything and I've told him and explained to him how I feel about everything. We really have a good communication - which you have to have when it's all long distance. I told him yesterday in fact, that I was amazed at how close and intense our relationship has gotten in the past couple of weeks merely by talking. I haven't seen him. As for being 'strapped' to a guy. That's not how I look at it at all - I never wanted a relationship. I was really happy being single and then I met him. I like being in a relationship with him - I'm just confused and scared at all the possibilities - possibilities of pain and tears as well as for joy.
Thanks a lot - now I'm even more confused! : )
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