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From the information you've provided, it seems as if he has shared a lot of information with you about his feelings and expectations, but you haven't shared anythig. I am not saying that to attack you, it is just the way I read it. Seems to me that if you want this relationship to work, you need to be opened and honest with him. It is not fair for either one of you to drag this out it you have different expectations. I also don't know about his promise not to have sex for 3-4 years. Maybe, but I doubt it.
OK, my advice, tell him how you feel. That it's going too fast, you don't feel as strongly as he does at this point in time, etc. Age is a huge factor for most people because of maturity and what-not. You are only 20 and have a lot of time ahead of you. You should be enjoying yourself, not strapped to a guy who wants a relationship if you aren't ready.
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