Guys who get too serious that quickly make me nervous, his intentions might be completely honorable, but I've seen others use it as a control mechanism.
Stick to your guns and do what's right for you and what makes you feel comfortable.
Because it's dealing with you, and no one can tell you if it's right or wrong. Why the 4 year timeline on having sex with him?
Some questions for you... Just cuz I'm a busybody... How far apart are you location wise. How'd you meet him? How often do you get together in person?
Good luck with wherever this takes you
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