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Hmmm, I think that "Why is it important" is a vital part of the evaluation process, actually. Not in, "Why, are you nuts?!?", but for others (and oneself) to be able to understand more deeply, and give better input.
Sometimes articulating the Why helps to resolve issues, too. Or at least identify them more clearly and specifically.
I would be interested in why the gent in question *doesn't* want to--I know he says he does, but no action indicates to me that he's not all that keen on it. It doesn't have to be a heartbreaking reason, could just be comfortable or whatever. But the poster has told the guy she wants it, he doesn't dissent openly, but no action.
Have you considered the line, "I'd like to be married in 2 years. It'd be great if it was to you..." ;P
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
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My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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