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Rubyee · 10-17-2005, 07:28 PM

Nikki, I agree. He has to decide upon it. Why is that with men? Is it because it is a harder decision for them to make?

And zkara, that is a very sad story, but I am glad it is working out for you. It seems that you felt exactly what I feel- I don't want to push him into anything.

I made sort of a comprimise- I told him that I wanted a ring for Christmas, and that this weekend we are going to go to the mall and get my finger sized. If, on January 1st of 2006 I do not have an engagement ring on my finger, I am going to take Nikki's advice and say "I want to be engaged to be married by June 1st, with a date set within a year of that." If he can't give me that, then I suppose I need to think about moving on.

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Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Nikki, I agree. He has to decide upon it. Why is that with men? Is it because it is a harder decision for them to make? And zkara, that is a very sad story, but I am glad it is working out for you. It seems that you felt exactly what I feel- I don't want to push him into anything. I made sort of a comprimise- I told him that I wanted a ring for Christmas, and that this weekend we are going to go to the mall and get my finger sized. If, on January 1st of 2006 I do not have an engagement ring on my finger, I am going to take Nikki's advice and say "I want to be engaged to be married by June 1st, with a date set within a year of that." If he can't give me that, then I suppose I need to think about moving on. __________________ You don't know from fun.