My thoughts on this are as follows:
Next time you talk about marriage say "I would like to be married by _____, what do you think about something like that?"
That is how the marriage talk started with my husband. We eventually kept getting closer and closer to a date we both agreed on and the only thing he had to do was ask me. Which he did, after 1.5 years of dating, and when he felt ready.
The BIGGEST thing is that no matter how much a man says he is ready, he has to be the one to come forward and decide that. It might mean you have to wait longer.....that is why this is such a diffulcult topic.
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