Wow... I feel both of these opinions are right. You might need to let her approach you, but you still have to seem interested. On the other hand, if you establish communication with her now, not just talking about stuff but about you and her, and what she wants and what you want, then you can both undestand eachother better. The secret to every lasting, good relationship is communication.
So I say you give her a chance, see what she does. Don't get her upset, and make sure you are there for her. But when the time is right, try to talk (face to face, no AIM or phone crap for this) about you and her and what she wants.
She sounds truely interested in you, and from what I read, she knows you are interested in her. Patience is a virtue that will help any relationship. If you try to rush it, it will collapse. Let her set the pace, and keep up.
Just make sure you both enjoy each other's company and have fun!
Good luck and God speed!
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