I'd worry more about your lifestyle than your appearance. Your body is not unattractive, but watching someone live in an unhealthy way IS, especially to someone who cares for you. My ex-boyfriend (ex for other reasons) was obese and I couldn't care less--but I hated to see him eat an entire pizza in one meal because I knew it was bad for him. I would feel exactly the same if not WORSE if my partner's reason for obesity was heavy drinking, because drinking has even more health problems associated than just weight. Your girlfriend will happily accept and enjoy your body as long as she knows you are healthy. Plenty of men exercise and eat well but still weigh a lot and their women love it!
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