maleficent

You really have two choices -- if this is something you want badly enough (and ask yourself if it's because you honestly want to spend the rest of your life with him and he improves the person that you are, or is it because 'everyone else is doing it; and uyou want to as well -- or other people expect it. (if it's the former - then ask him -- who gives a rats ass 10 years down the road who did the asking -- if it's the latter -- well then you want to get married for the wrong reaasons and you will be in divorce court in 5 years or so.)

If you want to get married - ask -- tell him, and be prepared for his answer... either positive or negative... what will you do if he says he doesn't want to actually be married and go thru the whole marriage process?

Some guys need a push -- some guys are just not the marrying kind... and are content to live together and not change things from how they are...

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