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Yakk · 10-15-2005, 09:48 PM

Strange, define "find attractive". It looks like you are talking about "find sexually attractive".

Want to look at? Enjoy looking at? Looking at, or thinking of looking at, makes you aroused?

If so, there are people who find shoes sexually attractive. Really. People can become physically attracted to all kinds of things. In fact, it isn't all that much in people's interest to be attracted to the same thing.

As for your relationship -- become the man you would want the woman you love to be with. Make yourself better every day. Be it physically, emotionally, sexually, mentally.

This isn't about losing her or not losing her. This isn't about being unworthy of her. This is about you, yourself, becoming the man that you would want the woman you love to be with. It is your own standards for yourself, not her standards, that you should worry about meeting.

Does she not tell you why she enjoys being with you? (no, don't ask her) If she doesn't say it out loud, pay attention to what makes her happy. It should be pretty clear. Mayhap she likes being with you, sleeping with you, and spending time with you because you make her happy.

And really, making someone happy is pretty much how you win at life, relationships, and everything.

10-15-2005, 09:48 PM	#22 (permalink)
Yakk Wehret Den Anfängen! Location: Ontario, Canada	Strange, define "find attractive". It looks like you are talking about "find sexually attractive". Want to look at? Enjoy looking at? Looking at, or thinking of looking at, makes you aroused? If so, there are people who find shoes sexually attractive. Really. People can become physically attracted to all kinds of things. In fact, it isn't all that much in people's interest to be attracted to the same thing. As for your relationship -- become the man you would want the woman you love to be with. Make yourself better every day. Be it physically, emotionally, sexually, mentally. This isn't about losing her or not losing her. This isn't about being unworthy of her. This is about you, yourself, becoming the man that you would want the woman you love to be with. It is your own standards for yourself, not her standards, that you should worry about meeting. Does she not tell you why she enjoys being with you? (no, don't ask her) If she doesn't say it out loud, pay attention to what makes her happy. It should be pretty clear. Mayhap she likes being with you, sleeping with you, and spending time with you because you make her happy. And really, making someone happy is pretty much how you win at life, relationships, and everything. __________________ Last edited by JHVH : 10-29-4004 BC at 09:00 PM. Reason: Time for a rest.