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former newt · 10-15-2005, 07:14 PM

another issue i have...my friends who know the situation i have with this girl have all told me "you gotta kiss her. you gotta get physical a little." but here's my problem:

i've never kissed a girl.

now that i have your attention, i can say that's not true. i've had my share of makeout sessions, but they've been while under the influence or just with a close friend who with whom i was just bored one day and just asked straight up "wanna makeout?" these haven't meant anything to me. bored and drunken play doesn't really affect me emotionally. i really haven't been in a SERIOUS relationship before...

basically what i'm saying is my experience with girls has not been on an intimate level. it has been merely random play. so this might illustrate why i'm sort of lost right now. i don't know how to go about getting closer to her emotionally and physically without feeling like i have no clue what i'm doing.

10-15-2005, 07:14 PM	#28 (permalink)
former newt Crazy	another issue i have...my friends who know the situation i have with this girl have all told me "you gotta kiss her. you gotta get physical a little." but here's my problem: i've never kissed a girl. now that i have your attention, i can say that's not true. i've had my share of makeout sessions, but they've been while under the influence or just with a close friend who with whom i was just bored one day and just asked straight up "wanna makeout?" these haven't meant anything to me. bored and drunken play doesn't really affect me emotionally. i really haven't been in a SERIOUS relationship before... basically what i'm saying is my experience with girls has not been on an intimate level. it has been merely random play. so this might illustrate why i'm sort of lost right now. i don't know how to go about getting closer to her emotionally and physically without feeling like i have no clue what i'm doing. Last edited by former newt; 10-15-2005 at 07:16 PM..