I bet that you are quite beautiful - just the way you are now! Correct, huh?
Screw the guys who say you should become a "tanned (i.e. orange), bottle blond"!
It's so boring seeing so many women fall under the media spell that they believe they need to look like a damn Britney Spears replicate or Paris Hilton or Hillary Duff or whomever is the token, fake Hollywood blonde of the day.
I'm of Germanic/Scottish descent and my Danish Germanic hubby thinks I'm perfectly gorgeous. Us Scots don't ever really tan, we freckle...& some guys go wild over us freckeled lasses! And BTW screw the whole skin cancer thing. Beauty is being who You truly Are.
Remember: timing is everything! The right guy will notice how fabu you are and let you know...