Air45: Do a search under Members List and read some of his posts; He is an alter ego of someone, and I enjoy his grasp of the english language and outlook about sex. He is comic relief...
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Originally Posted by toby19
I am hoping some more people will talk about their experiences.
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Well, you and I are about as far apart on the sexual spectrum as two people can get. I think about women and sex every 3 seconds, on average, and occasionally question if I am not normal because
that IS ALL I EVER THINK ABOUT.
Now, you saying you have never have desired sex is like ripping your head off and showing me that you have a little super-intelligent alien piloting your body. It doesn't compute. Conversely, you should think I am a registered sex offender, and comparing my experiences to your own would not be beneficial.
You can probably appreciate the responses of people here when they are telling you to look deeper into your sexual orientation. We are saying that with kindness, and we pride ourselves here at TFP in being inclusive of all different genders.
I think, Toby, that your thread is harder for people to process than the hundred threads we read every day (where guys ask if the signals women send them mean anything or the women ask why the guy won't call her) because it is relatively rare. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING. We have lots of experience, and very often people who write the things like you did in your original post are avoiding the fact they are homosexual for religious or cultural reasons. They are in denial, and the only way to grow is to confront that.
If you know that is not the case, then congratulations! You are secure in your sexuality (or in this case, asexuality) and you are starting off in a good position for growth, mentally.
Can I ask, What DO you desire? I am looking for sexual things in nature, but not necessarily. If you really get very "satisfied" with solving multivariable calculus equations, that is an insight as well.