newt,
I'm going to suggest that in some way, you act as her pressure relief valve, and that you use her in the same way. She's stressed, you're stressed - suggest that y'all do something that is low-key and gives a break from the regular. It sounds to me like you're waiting for her to tell you when y'all will hang out on Saturday. I'd suggest you take the initiative. Figure out what you would like to do on Saturday, then ask her to do it with you. What do you have to lose? This way you have a plan for yourself, even if she's not a part, and hopefully y'all get to hang out. If she's stressed out, it might be nice, from her perspective, not to have to plan it all out, etc.
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