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Originally Posted by abaya
Why are they hard to keep going?... this always puzzles me from guys. To me, a conversation has a natural flow once it gets going. It's like a wheel that you just have to tap lightly to keep it spinning... for me, I rarely run out of topics to discuss, but I find that doing so for an extended period is almost painful for guys. It's like they're "sore" from too much "intimacy" or something (to keep the conversation/sex parallel going)
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Try not to pigeonhole us males too bad. J/K, but in my relationship I'm often the one who is wishing we'd talk longer. I think it really boils down to me having A LOT more time to devote to the relationship right now. Just out of curiosity do you think maybe you have more time to devote to long conversations than your boyfriend does? Or maybe not specifically more time, but less things to do with your time?
Another thought I have is perhaps you can try talking about all the things you wanna do to him when you get the chance
Ya know like the things that are gonna make his eyes go
My girlfriend and I don't talk about that stuff real often, but when we do it usually leads to a good long conversation and both of us feeling fullfilled to some extent.