Lebell proposed to me semi-public. (We were at a New Year's eve get together with friends. They were all outside and we were inside when he proposed.) If I had said no or I have to think about it, there would have been less embarassement. As it was, I said yes and it was nice to have people to celebrate with.
I think it depends totally on the person. He knows her best and should decide based on her personality.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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