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Originally Posted by Poppinjay
But it is so hard to keep those conversations going.
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Why are they hard to keep going?... this always puzzles me from guys. To me, a conversation has a natural flow once it gets going. It's like a wheel that you just have to tap lightly to keep it spinning... for me, I rarely run out of topics to discuss, but I find that doing so for an extended period is almost painful for guys. It's like they're "sore" from too much "intimacy" or something (to keep the conversation/sex parallel going)...
Meanwhile, thanks everyone for your replies... I am definitely feeling less alone and that I'm not weird for putting such a high value on conversations. And, btw, ktspktsp and I had a really intimate MSN convo when we were apart this weekend, and it felt soooooooo gooooooood to have him respond and ask questions the way he did...
it really is just as satisfying as physical sex, to me, in terms of expressing his love for me.
...not to mention that as a result of that convo, I felt much more turned-on and horny with him the following day. The sex was awesome!!
(Guys, take note... intimate conversations pay off in more ways than one.)