I've worked shift work for over 20 years of my career and I know about odd hours and such. If you care about your wife try to make sure that you aren't taking your work frustration home and dumping it on her. She can be your life preserver if you will let her. If you drive her away you will only feel worse.
Back in the day, when I was young, any degree almost garuanteed that you would make good money from the start but now almost everyone has a degree and it's not enough. If you can't use the degree right now try to find something you actually enjoy doing for a while. Work for a landscaping company, sling burgers, what ever but don't let this start your life off on a bad note.
Save your home life first! Then worry about the rest. It's amazing what you can live through as a team.
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