My wife and I still aren't decided on whether to have children through in vitro insemination or adoption. Grace, though enthusiastic about being a parent, isn't quite as enthusiastic about being pregnant and giving birth, but we haven't decided yet. If I could have kids, the choice would be easy, as I have many of the same desires that Jane describes in her first post there.
I think we're leaning towards adoption at this point, but we're still not quite ready for having our own yet, having just gotten a teenager (my sister) through high school.
There are a ton of children available for adoption at any time, particularly if you're not picky about race.
Whatever you decide to do, good luck with it.
Gilda
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