To be or not to be. That is the question.
When my brother committed suicide, I was mad at him for years thinking it was a selfish act etc... Now I see it as a choice that he made in his own world. It wasn't to hurt the people around him but to escape from what he was going through.
We all die one day. It's a fact. Suicide is a way to control that event (even though it may seem like distorted logic to outsiders). My brother was happiest just before he died because he'd made that decision and, this might explain the last blog entry for your girlfriends brother.
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