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Old 09-30-2005, 06:46 AM   #5 (permalink)
Jinn
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I understand that if we hang out too much, we might be just friends.
The friend zone is the bane of the male existance, but it can be avoided. If this is a realistic fear, then you might have to be more forward than I stated in my initial post. Take it to the physical level, quickly and noticeably, but not creepily. In a conversation, use any chance you can to touch her on the shoulder, on the arm, or even "accidently" bump into her. I'm not talking Lester the Molester style, but physical contact early in the relationship is usually what determines the-friend-zone versus relationship material. Don't go grabbing or groping, but make it clear that you enjoy being in close PHYSICAL proximity as well as emotional proximity.
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