Do you find yourselves walking on egg shells basically trying to be accepted by people around you? Ofcourse it comes off as pathetic, and those people who you try to be super nice to, simply take your kindness for weakness. The next process is for you to get upset and you basically withdraw yourself from them and eventually there is no friendship or respect. Those of you who have an easy time with this...how do you do it? Maybe I should try being a stone cold person around people I feel uncomfortable around instead of trying to be nice, and them not responding in the same manner, and then i feel like a total fool.
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