I've had a similar problem as well, and it's just as Schwan said, they may not even realize that they're doing anything that could be construed by you as unfair or one-sided, but it happens.
When I got that same feeling about some people that you have, I did what Schwan did, just stopped calling them, they didn't call me and I didn't see them for quite a while, and you know what? I feel like I'm much better off for it. I don't need "friends" who don't really seem to care whether I'm around or not, I'd rather not have them around, and take my chances finding friends that value my friendship, and don't just take me for granted or use me for whatever they need.
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