Chances are if all of your relationships are like this, there's something you're doing to contribute to the situation - either choosing people as friends who let you take care of them in this way, or just being so pro-active that they have become "trained" to let you do all the work. It might help if you talk to the ones you're most comfortable with and ask them to be honest about why they don't call you, or what you do that invites people to walk all over you.
Good luck!
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
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