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Wow. Talk about high maintenance. She needs _you_ there doing what _she_ needs you to do, _exactly_ when she wants you to do it. Otherwise, you're evil.
No healthy person can or should do this. No healthy person would _require_ another person to be that way.
I can't tell you what her problems are, but she has some. The tragedy is that it sounds like she really likes you, but she can't believe that you like her unless you totally fawn over her all the time.
She needs somebody alright, but not you: a shrink. Somebody to talk to who help her see what she's doing is getting in the way of her own happiness, and help her figure out -why- she's doing it. Unfortunately, that's not something you can do for her. You're too close. So you have to wish her well and disengage. Maybe she'll wise up eventually, as others have said. But don't wait for it.
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