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Sounds like me.
Hopefully I'm not that extreme. Be friends. Or whatever she wants. Everytime you see signs of her being needy, let he know quietly that you care. Don't discuss it further. Say the same thing, give her a hug. Don't try to explain things. She isn't in a state to understand. She may be going through some crap, or already did... in any case, she has reasons to be needy. She'll let go of the neediness when she realizes she's not going to lose you anytime soon.
It sounds like you don't want to walk away. It sounds like you care a lot about her. Sometimes it's not the answer to leave. Sometimes the answer is to stay. If 6 months pass and things are still unreasonable, if you don't see it working out, then go ahead and call it off. But make it very clear to her then (even if she doesn't believe you) that you care.
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