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Originally Posted by Stompy
I'm at the point right now where I realize this is kinda hopeless. Someone I care about has convinced herself that I don't care (which led to our breakup) and with what happened last night.. still believes those things.
I know I'm in a bad situation with all of this. It's fucking with me... to have someone you care about do all of this.
What the hell drives someone to be like this, and what am I supposed to do?
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Um, walk away. Seriously. Now, while it's definitely possible that we're just getting a one-sided story here, it's also pretty clear this girl has some self-esteem issues she needs to contend with, and she's only going to be able to do that on her own. She's got some kind of crazy going on (shoot, I've said things like that to my guy friends, but I was PMSy and they knew it) that you're obviously not able to handle, and you're probably only exacerbating the problem. So, walk away. Come back in a few months. Maybe she'll have it sorted out by then.